I was sitting on the floor picking up some old spoons that I use in food photographs (someone had pulled them out of the sideboard and made a mess) when I was struck with quite a revelation. I'd much rather eat with old cutlery - like those lovely sets they have in the second hand shop up Cuba St, you know, white bone handles, the kind your Grandparents had - than the run of the mill "modern" Briscoes kind of cutlery.
It got me thinking about what I'd like to do differently. Differently to the norm I mean, different to what "everyone else" does, or at least many of the people in the world I live in. I like to shower at night, and not in the morning. I'd rather buy second hand furniture than new. I let my kids jump on the sofa. I decorate my home with cottage-y things and even (argh!) pretty, girly stuff. I plan for my children to not do any homework during their primary school years (now there's a topic!). I have never made and decorated a cake in the shape of, well, anything other than a cake, and I have no desire to (though I will if my kids really want me to). For twenty years now I have wanted desperately to not settle for my adult life in suburbia (hmmm, I don't think that's going to work). I'm not a fan of pumpkin soup (I know, I know, I'm sorry).
No doubt some of you will feel the same way as me on some of these things (thanks, Rachel, for the sofa sessions in times gone by), but not all. I guess because we're different.
I think I'll keep thinking. I might need to get my notebook out again. It's a little bit interesting. It's good to think about being different in a good way. Not in a school playground you're a weirdo way, but in a hey, this is the way I'm made and I like it like that way.
What do you like to do differently? What makes you different? Different in a good way (in your opinion). Different because you like it like that. Different not because everyone else is getting it wrong, but because that's the way you're made.
Well I'm finding this question way harder than the favourite things one! Will need to think on it some more ...
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